Gender-Free Etiquette

DO

Hold doors for whoever follows, regardless of gender.

Shake hands with everyone the same way: one hand, straight up and down.

Allow whoever is closest to the door to get off an elevator first.

Introduce people in business based on rank, not gender.

Help anyone having difficulty getting a coat or sweater off or on.

Stand to greet people, especially if they are of higher rank, clients, or elderly.

Expect the host to pay for a meal, whether the host is male or female.

DO NOT

Beyond a one-hand professional handshake, touch people.

Worry about who walks closer to the curb. (This dated custom originated when speeding carriages splashed mud on pedestrians and ladies needed shielding.)

Show too much skin in any business-related situation. Avoid shorts, sleeveless shirts, tank tops, sandal-type shoes, and strapless dresses.

Help someone to sit down by pulling out a chair or pushing it in unless the person is elderly, incapacitated, or in need of assistance.